10 Things You Can Do To Alleviate Your Anxiety Right Now


If you or someone you know has anxiety, you know how debilitating it can be. Of course, it comes in many forms—anxiety, social anxiety, Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), panic attacks, and the list goes on.

As someone who’s had bad anxiety, mostly in the form of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, I can relate. When you’re in the thick of it, all seems lost—fear and anxiety grab you and won’t let go. However, through techniques I’ve learned from therapists, from friends and loved ones with anxiety and from research, there are ways to manage your anxiety—and without medication, too.

Here 10 things you can do to help alleviate your anxiety quickly, and I can attest to them all.

1. Just Breathe

I know—what does “just breathe” even mean? When friends and therapists used to tell me this, I wanted to tell them, “I already am, obviously.” Little did I know they meant practicing particular breathing techniques. Whether you want to stop a panic attack or simply can’t seem to catch your breath (plus, your heart’s racing, you’re sweating, etc.), there are a couple great breathing techniques you can try.

For instance, according to this Lifehacker article, Clinical Psychologist Jeffrey DeGroat, Ph.D., suggests a breathing exercise where you breathe in for four seconds, then out for six seconds, and to keep repeating it until you are calmer or your panic attack is gone. It works—try it!

Tony Robbins, too, has a great breathing-to-calm-down technique. In the following YouTube video, he says to breathe in for five seconds, hold it for 20 seconds, then breathe out for 10 seconds. (YouTuber Chris Downham posted the video, and I like the way he guides us through Tony’s technique.)


2. Try The ‘Wristband’ Technique

Have you ever seen someone with a rubber band around their wrist and, sometimes, you’ll see them snapping it? Well, it’s likely not just a rubber band. Instead, it could be their go-to to help curb anxiety. I have lived in L.A. for many years, and I’ve seen many people snapping rubber bands on their wrists. Finally, I asked a friend of mine what his was all about. He explained the theorem to me, as his psychotherapist had explained it to him. Whenever my friend gets overwhelmed and anxious, he is supposed to snap the rubber band to bring him back to the present moment. I use this technique now and then, too, and it works.

The CalmClinic vouches for it, as well. “The wristband anxiety treatment is designed to take you out of your own head and snap you back into reality. It’s a reminder piece designed to get you to stop over-thinking and prevent anxiety from getting worse.”

Hear ye, hear ye. Some people add a mantra, too, such as, “I am not going to let anxiety control me,” according to the CalmClinic. My friend only snapped the rubber band once at a time, though the CalmClinic suggests snapping it against your wrist three times, repeating your affirmation as you do so.


3. Download Headspace

Headspace is a meditation app that will even make meditation naysayers (like I was) take note and sit still (finally). Of course, many health experts say that meditation helps to reduce anxiety, and now you can meditate via your phone.

“Take 10” is Headspace’s free introductory series—10 sessions, 10 minutes each. Once you try it, you’ll get hooked—not only on the meditations, but on the meditation guy’s soothing voice as well, trust me. It’s “a gym membership for the mind,” Headspace states. And if don’t want to subscribe (subscriptions generally start around $10 a month depending on the plan you choose), you can repeat the “Take 10” as often as you’d like.


4. Talk To Somebody—Via Talkspace

Talkspace connects you with a licensed therapist for an on-demand therapy session, so you can get relief without needing to leave your home. You can text or talk via audio or video. Plus, you can try it for free. Various payment plans are available, and unlimited messaging therapy is available, too, for $32 per week—a lot less than an in-person therapist, if you think about it. Plus, writing things out can be very therapeutic in and of itself.

Talkspace/ Groop Internet Platform inc.

5. Reduce Your Alcohol Intake—Or Stop Drinking It Altogether

You may already know that alcohol is a depressant, but did you know it’s also not anxiety’s friend? When my anxiety was at its worst, I cut out alcohol for over a year and felt a lot better.

And experts agree.

“…In making the choice to party less or not at all, which greatly supports your decision to reduce alcohol consumption, you’re making a very loving choice for yourself, one that not only honors your wiring as a highly sensitive person—and likely an introvert—but one that places your desire for an anxiety-free life above your desire to fit in,” Sheryl Paul, M.A., said in a piece for MindBodyGreen titled, “The #1 Change That Could Reduce Anxiety (That Almost No One Tries).”

Yep, that change is alcohol. Why not try it and see? Easy enough, right?


6. Cut Back On Sugar

I know, nothing’s more comforting sometimes than a pint of Ben & Jerry’s, but how does it make you feel later? Truly happier?

“If you are prone to anxiety, you should avoid foods that contain refined sugar, including processed foods,” Shelly Guillory, a registered nurse, wrote in a Livestrong piece regarding foods that trigger anxiety. “After eating sugar, you may experience a short burst of energy, but then your blood sugar levels drop, which can leave you feeling tired and sluggish. When blood sugar levels get too low, known as hypoglycemia, you may experience symptoms of anxiety. When sugar levels swing from high to low, your hormones, adrenaline and cortisol, are released, which can cause anxiety and panic.”

Instead, Guillory recommends eating whole foods and a balanced diet, “with an appropriate amount of protein and carbohydrates.” Yes, easier said than done—but worth a shot.


7. Get A Lavender—Anything!

Most of us know that lavender is a natural calming agent. Whether you get a silky, lavender-scented eye pillow, grow lavender plants in your house or use lavender essential oil (under your nose or on your eye mask), lavender can help you relax and reduce your anxiety. Plus, if anxiety (i.e., insomnia) is keeping you up at night, make sure to add some lavender to your life.


8. Take A Bath

Whether you want to soak in Epsom Salts, which have their own healing and calming properties, or use bath salts (try this recipe from Wellness Mama), baths can help your anxiety float away.


9. Drink Some Herbal Tea

Drinking herbal tea can help reduce your anxiety. You can either make your own with ingredients like fresh peppermint leaves or a few drops of peppermint essential oil . Or, you can try Sweet Dreams by David’s Tea, which I highly recommend. It includes organic ingredients like lemongrass and licorice root, and I’m getting relaxed just thinking about it.

David's Tea

10. Listen To This Song

Researchers have deemed this to be the most relaxing song ever. Yes, really. The title is “Weightless,” which seems quite appropriate.

Have a listen and see if it does the trick for you.


So there you have it. The next time you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed and think there’s no end in sight, remember to try some of these tips. Because, even though you may feel out of control, there are many ways to get back in control and to quell your anxiety.


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Natalia Lusinski
In addition to Simplemost, Natalia is an ongoing writer for Bustle (sex, dating, relationships, and money), HelloGiggles (pop culture and news), The Delite (feel-good stories), and Don’t Waste Your Money (yep, money issues!). You can also find her writing in the L.A. Times, the Chicago Tribune's RedEye, xoJane, Elite Daily, Scary Mommy, Elephant Journal, and Chicken Soup for the Soul anthologies, among other publications. She has a Ph.D. in couch-surfing, having spent four years sleeping on over 200 L.A.-area love seats and sectionals, all in an effort to whittle down her student loan debt. She still loves couch-surfing in other cities, too (hint, hint).

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