Teen Mom Makes Touching Video For Newborn Son She Placed For Adoption
She was faced with a hard decision at 18, but this story has a sweet ending!
Hannah Mongie faced a difficult decision at a young age. She was 18 when she found out she was pregnant with the child of her boyfriend, Kaden Whitney, whom she’d only been dating for several months.
They made the choice to place the boy for adoption, feeling they weren’t ready to care for him. Mongie carried the child but then, when Whitney suddenly died during her pregnancy, she felt unsure if she could go through with letting him go.
“I was just so depressed. I was not going to think of adoption at all. The baby was my last part of Kaden,” Mongie later told “Today.” Ultimately, she decided he should be adopted but she made a touching video for him so he’d know how much his birth mother truly loved him and how difficult it was for her to let him go.
Watch it below.
Mom Hopes Others Will Learn What The Birth Mom Goes Through
“One day I woke up, and I just knew that you were supposed to be with someone else. So, I went and searched for families,” Mongie said in the video. “I found your parents, Brad and Emily Marsh, and I fell in love with them. They were beyond anything I could have asked for, and I have really, really high standards for anyone who’s going to raise my child.”
The video is extremely heartfelt, and Mongie said she hopes “anyone who watches this will be able to gain a new perspective on what the birth mom goes through.”
Mongie’s son, Taggart, was adopted in March 2016, but she only recently shared the video via the Love What Matters Facebook page. Since it was posted on Jan. 5, it has been watched about 3 million times!
One year ago today was the best, most incredible and most tiring day of my existence. I gave birth to the love of my life. The most beautiful baby boy in the whole entire world. He is my heart and my soul. This baby boy has saved me in ways I could never explain. He is the reason I love God and the reason I have so much love for Jesus and for the Atonement. I will never be able to express to him how grateful I am that he became apart of my life. I don't know what I would do without him. I am not me without him here on this earth. He has given me purpose. From the moment I heard his cry, tears flowed from my eyes. They were tears of a new kind of love that I had never experienced before. The all consuming love that a mother has for her child. If I could go back and live these three days of agony all over again, I would do it in a heartbeat. Happiest first birthday to the love of my love, my sweet Taggart Kaden Marsh. You will always be my first true love. 💙
Mongie and the Marshes have an open adoption, so she still gets to see little Tagg “all the time.”
Happy Birth Mother's Day to all of the mamas out there who have either lost a child or are unable to hold them in their arms today. You are my hero. And to Tagg: Taggy baby, you are the absolute love of my life. My reason for living. My everything. I love you with every fiber of my being and I thank Heavenly Father for you every day of my life. I love you so much, sweety!
The Marshes also have two other adopted sons, who also have open adoptions.
“Our birth moms are kind of put on a pedestal at our house,” Emily Marsh told ABC News. “We have a picture of each kid with their birth mom on their nightstands and we speak very highly of them and they’re very respected in our home.”
A year ago today, I met the best mommy and daddy (and Carter) for the first time ever. I knew from the second I found them that they were the ones who needed to become Taggy's family. It's crazy to think that we have only been in my life for a year. It feels as though we have known each other for a lifetime and they are some of my closest friends/family now. I truly can testify that God has a plan for all of us and he put these wonderful people in my life for a reason. 💙 #familiesareforever #adoption #birthmomlove
Benefits Of Open Adoption
Open adoption agreements are decided upon between the birth parents and the adopting parents and can manifest in varying degrees. But according to America Adopts, “Studies show that there are huge benefits for all members of the triad, especially to the adopted child. Openness allows adoptees to know who they are and where they came from, giving them self-esteem and a strong sense of identity.”
And it’s clear that little Tagg is loved very much by both parties, and just so he’d never have to wonder about that fact, his birth mom always has the touching video to prove it—not to mention an Instagram feed filled with pictures and message of love.
MY LIFE. MY LOVE. MY EVERYTHING. 💙. I am SO glad that I was able to speak with Emily about adoption today to kids at a high school. It was such an incredible experience and it only solidified my love for her and their little family. Adoption is the best thing to ever happen to me. I LOVE YOU BABY BOY!💙💙💙
This Story Of An Adopted Girl Meeting Her Birth Parents Is The Best Thing You’ll Read All Day
Can you imagine not knowing about your biological parents or heritage until your 20s?
“Growing up, I never really asked any questions, I asked my mum, I was like ‘what do you know about my adoption’ one time in the car… I think my biggest fear in meeting my biological family is that somehow I’ll disappoint them more,” said Kati. “In a lot of ways obviously, they feel like they’ve let me down. But I also know how much pain they’ve gone through.”
This is the incredible story of one daughter, Kati, and her journey to meet her biological parents for the first time in 20 years. Kati was forced to be put up for adoption at one year old as a result of a devastatingly sad, yet common circumstance created by China’s former One-Child Policy. This policy enforces only having one child per couple with strict consequences including steep fines, abortion and sterilization.
Kati’s biological parents, Lida and Fenxiang, were forced to make the most difficult decision of their lives when in 1994 they became pregnant with Kati, who was to be their second child. Instead of aborting her, they decided they would give her away with the hopes of meeting her again later in life.
All of this changed recently when Kati traveled to China in order to meet Lida and Fenxiang. Watch their reunion below: