According To Science, There’s No Such Thing As Holding Your Baby Too Much
Cuddle up — here's why science says so.
Don’t put that baby down. Research now says you can’t hold your baby too much. In fact, the more you snuggle with your babe, the better off they’ll be. (Twist your arm, right?)
The importance of touch in a baby’s development cannot be overstated, and the latest research suggests that holding your baby is more crucial to brain development than previously assumed.
This research — which was conducted at Nationwide Children’s Hospital in Ohio — centered on 125 premature and full-term infants.
Studying Babies And Touch
The researchers wanted to see how babies responded to gentle touch and found that preemies were less likely to respond to touching than their full-term peers. And sadly, preemies who had been exposed to painful medical procedures were also less likely to respond to touch.
But there’s good news, too. Researchers also found that the premature babies who experienced an increased amount of gentle touch from parents or NICU staff responded more strongly to that gentle touching than babies who were held or touched less frequently.
This increase in responsiveness shows that gentle touching (like rocking and skin-to-skin contact) can help brain development, writes lead researcher, Dr. Nathalie Maitre. It also shows that if you aren’t already having maximum touch time with your baby, it’s not too late to start. There will still be benefits.
“Making sure that preterm babies receive positive, supportive touch such as skin-to-skin care by parents is essential to help their brains respond to gentle touch in ways similar to those of babies who experienced an entire pregnancy inside their mother’s womb,” Maitre explained in an interview with Science Daily.
Advocating For Skin-To-Skin Contact
She also advocated for hospitals to get involved in ensuring infants get this important contact, which has been found to provide lifelong benefits.
“When parents cannot do this, hospitals may want to consider occupational and physical therapists to provide a carefully planned touch experience, [which is] sometimes missing from a hospital setting,” she said.
Promoting skin-to-skin contact or “kangaroo care” between newborns and parents has become commonplace in many hospitals and NICUs around the country (barring the sad cases where the premature babies are not able to be held).
And this prescription for close contact with baby isn’t just aimed at moms. Dads commonly get in on the kangaroo care, and in some cases, other close relatives will as well.
In one sweet case that went viral last year, a big brother even took part in the skin-to-skin contact for his newborn twin siblings.
And one hospital in Atlanta has an “ICU Grandpa” who steps in to cuddle babies at times when hospital staff or parents can’t.
You Can’t ‘Spoil’ A Baby
If you’re of a certain age, then chances are you’re familiar with the idea that holding a baby will “spoil” him or her.
While many parents inherently know that advice isn’t true, there’s a whole bunch of science to prove it. Holding a baby — particularly in the earliest months of life — provides many benefits and essentially no downsides (aside from tired parents).
So there you have it. Cuddle to your heart’s content! Your baby’s brain will thank you.